I just don't get it.
I'll actually answer your question.
There is nothing wrong with it. Some people find themselves using it sooner, some find themselves using it later.
Being that it is a very personal topic you wont see many people argue pro their position & thoughts on their personal lives. Most people will not discuss this in a public forum..
Those who do are usually the machmirim & kinoim who are open with their frumkeit & have nothing to lose so to speak.
Everyone knows children are a beautiful thing & our future but once some people have a boy & a girl the drive & push to have more children IMO diminishes. This is an observation vs btdt.
Its easy to knock & try to show youre more frum than someone else when your sitting behind a computer screen but when it comes TOT everyone knows exactly what they need to do & when its an appropriate time & when not.
You were old enough to get married, I hope youre adult enough to make adult decisions.