looking for something in my backyard i might be missing. looking to go away last week of august with the kiddos. no flying. 3-4 hour drive from nyc. was thinking poconos (white water rafting, horse back riding, rent a vrbo with private pool) or lancaster, pa (hershey's, herr's, amish town) any better suggestion or improvement upon mine? we dont use public pools so any resort is not of interest