Reminds me of discussions I used to have with my yungerman brother about looking down on others, and how it seems to be more prevalent in the kollel community than in my community. He responded that I was looking down on him for looking down at others. It gave me pause and I'm still unsure how I feel about that claim.
@Sky121 What you said I agree with @Aaron to me the bottom line is we all need boundaries. I don't claim to be totally open minded. But as for seeing others views if they are racist, hateful, or judgmental I have a pretty good idea that I don't agree with that person.
If you are saying to accept and love people and your little bro is saying no don't talk to them they are kofrim, than it is clear to me who is being close minded.
I have more to say and it's hard to pinpoint with this headache, but I appreciate accepting and loving values, while I abhor condescending and hateful values. Everything judged on a case by case basis. (I do hate Nazis
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In regards to Moshe123 I was just trying to show what is in his mind, not what I think. Like sky121 said he was raised that way so we should also jugde him with some favor.