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Re: United Crew Shames Woman Who Won’t Move Seats Due To Demand From Men
« Reply #220 on: August 17, 2023, 02:29:35 PM »
Exactly. Which is why I don't really understand Dan and others making a big deal of he isn't chareidi or he is, he just wanted his son to sit near his friend, etc. That's missing the point IMHO. He could have had long payos and wearing the full garb, make no difference. Anyone can ask anyone else if they would be willing to switch seats for any reason. She decided to blow up about it, that's on her. Everything else is irrelevant. 
You and I can believe that's not an issue and it's a factor, but that's not an argument you'll win with someone anti-religious.
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Re: United Crew Shames Woman Who Won’t Move Seats Due To Demand From Men
« Reply #221 on: August 17, 2023, 02:31:27 PM »
Exactly. Which is why I don't really understand Dan and others making a big deal of he isn't chareidi or he is, he just wanted his son to sit near his friend, etc. That's missing the point IMHO. He could have had long payos and wearing the full garb, make no difference. Anyone can ask anyone else if they would be willing to switch seats for any reason. She decided to blow up about it, that's on her. Everything else is irrelevant.

Of course. The issue is forcing people to move. Her claim was that they were threatening to delay or divert the flight based on the guy *refusing* to sit next to her and forcing her to move. We know Chareidim have done that in the past. But this story never passed the sniff test from the beginning. We all intuitively knew, without even hearing his story, that she was likely making it up. Now that we know she is making it up, we can also point out that her refusal to move for a Chossid would have been equally racist and problematic.

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Re: United Crew Shames Woman Who Won’t Move Seats Due To Demand From Men
« Reply #222 on: August 17, 2023, 02:38:17 PM »
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Re: United Crew Shames Woman Who Won’t Move Seats Due To Demand From Men
« Reply #223 on: August 17, 2023, 02:39:53 PM »
Give it some time.

Not sure how to see that. Mainly sharing the ddf link. Several times responding to users offering them to see the other side of the story.

If you search her name on Linkdn you will see several people sharing online the msm articles. I would respond but I try to keep my Linkdn non political...
I checked your tweets. Very tame tweets. Truly a snowflake trying to protect her story while still digging her hole deeper and deeper.

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Re: United Crew Shames Woman Who Won’t Move Seats Due To Demand From Men
« Reply #224 on: August 17, 2023, 02:41:28 PM »
I would appreciate it if anyone could clarify. If I am uncomfortable sitting next to someone for religious reasons, what should I do? I understand that airlines have a duty to accommodate passengers with religious beliefs. May I ask someone to change seats in this situation?

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Re: United Crew Shames Woman Who Won’t Move Seats Due To Demand From Men
« Reply #225 on: August 17, 2023, 02:42:32 PM »
I would appreciate it if anyone could clarify. If I am uncomfortable sitting next to someone for religious reasons, what should I do? I understand that airlines have a duty to accommodate passengers with religious beliefs. May I ask someone to change seats in this situation?
I don’t believe they have any duty to accommodate such a request.
You can ask politely for people to switch to help you, but if it’s absolutely מעכב that it work out you should fly business.

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Re: United Crew Shames Woman Who Won’t Move Seats Due To Demand From Men
« Reply #227 on: August 17, 2023, 02:44:49 PM »
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Re: United Crew Shames Woman Who Won’t Move Seats Due To Demand From Men
« Reply #229 on: August 17, 2023, 02:46:50 PM »
I would appreciate it if anyone could clarify. If I am uncomfortable sitting next to someone for religious reasons, what should I do? I understand that airlines have a duty to accommodate passengers with religious beliefs. May I ask someone to change seats in this situation?
If the issue is sitting in between 2 people, then pay for the aisle or window.

I hate to say it, but if you have a bona fide religious conviction against the possibility of sitting next to someone, why is it different then when we pay double for kosher food or kosher wine or tuition?

Buy an extra seat and you'll avoid all drama. Plus you'll be a lot more comfortable.

I understand not everyone can afford that, but travel is a luxury in the first place.
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Re: United Crew Shames Woman Who Won’t Move Seats Due To Demand From Men
« Reply #232 on: August 17, 2023, 02:48:54 PM »
Some are in the QRT above, but should there be a DDMS post and Tweet rounding up all the clues that this story was a fabrication?

Feel free to contribute additional ones here.
I think a round up is a good idea

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Re: United Crew Shames Woman Who Won’t Move Seats Due To Demand From Men
« Reply #234 on: August 17, 2023, 02:52:34 PM »
If the issue is sitting in between 2 people, then pay for the aisle or window.

I hate to say it, but if you have a bona fide religious conviction against the possibility of sitting next to someone, why is it different then when we pay double for kosher food or kosher wine or tuition?

Buy an extra seat and you'll avoid all drama. Plus you'll be a lot more comfortable.

I understand not everyone can afford that, but travel is a luxury in the first place.

My question was if I may ask politely for people to switch with me if the reason should clearly be that I do not want to sit near a woman

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Re: United Crew Shames Woman Who Won’t Move Seats Due To Demand From Men
« Reply #235 on: August 17, 2023, 02:54:34 PM »
My question was if I may ask politely for people to switch with me if the reason should clearly be that I do not want to sit near a woman
You can, but this story is telling as you might wind up being the center of an international debacle.
With the Haredi/Chiloni split as bad as it is now, I expect to see more of these come up when people ask to switch. It just happens to be that this one was made up.
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Re: United Crew Shames Woman Who Won’t Move Seats Due To Demand From Men
« Reply #236 on: August 17, 2023, 02:55:57 PM »
I think a round up is a good idea
OK, let's hear everyone's bullet points to have in there.
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Re: United Crew Shames Woman Who Won’t Move Seats Due To Demand From Men
« Reply #238 on: August 17, 2023, 03:17:50 PM »
BTW this whole was he or was he not "ultra-orthodox" is dumb. The term itself is ridiculous and utterly meaningless, and this discussion gives it credence.

I think a way better term would be "obviously charedi/haredi".

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Re: United Crew Shames Woman Who Won’t Move Seats Due To Demand From Men
« Reply #239 on: August 17, 2023, 03:20:01 PM »
BTW this whole was he or was he not "ultra-orthodox" is dumb. The term itself is ridiculous and utterly meaningless, and this discussion gives it credence.

I think a way better term would be "obviously charedi/haredi".

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Charedi is just as vague as ultra-orthodox, no? How do you define that word differently?
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