Source?
Why should I be them חושד?
And yes if it the alternatives were nearly abolishing torah or nearly abolishing marriage, I believe we would go with the former. That's the key differentiatior
No one suggested to wipe the torah, we're talking about not learning the entire day,
If you look back in history there was never a kollel system or any of the kind, then norm was to get married at 18-20 and then they would get a job (if they haven't had one by then...) and they had a sheer in the morning and at night,
אחד מאלף who really meant it didn't go to work and would just sit in shul/Yeshiva and continue his learnings, very few were in this category..