And for everyone else: My reservations are about hashing out all the details in a real nitty gritty way, YWN-style. At this point, it's not about informing people of the story. It's about analyzing and joking about every aspect of the story. And while there are other stories unfortunately in which there is a factor of warning the community, this story probably doesn't have that aspect.
Is "the entire frum community on DDF"? Of course not, I didn't say they were. I said that the son will THINK that the whole frum community knows, because he doesn't know how wide-spread DDF is. Also, as someone noted above, any visitor can see posts. In any event, if it's hashed like this, the son may suspect that any person he meets knows his father's wrongdoing, and it can mess up his life in a much more serious way.
The only redeeming factor is that so far, nobody posted a name, so hopefully this thread won't come up if he ever does a Google search.