What a novel idea, I think you just solved the shidduch crisis...
...NOT! 
Forgive my cynicism. I grew up somewhere between Yeshivish and Modern. In practical terms, I went to Yeshivas that were more to the right than my parents, but my parents were not modern - i.e. would never allow us in a coed school/camp. But we also had a TV at home, went to movies, I was allowed by my parents to talk to girls, etc. I lived at home for college, but went to a college where the frum population was one of a handful of students.
As a teenager, I came to the realization that no matter what outward trappings of yiddishkeit you choose to follow, it didn't dictate what was in your heart. I have yeshivish/chasidish friends that I consider to be true and ehrlich, and are the most nice and genuine people I've met. I have met people who raise their noses at you because you don't wear a hat/learned in yeshiva X/ etc., but were caught with their hands in the cookie jar.
When I grew up I realized that I was happy with who I was - both in life and in yiddishkeit. I decided that if I would want to continue doing the things I did and wore a hat - the Yeshivish world would always see me as a faker, where the modern world would see me as a genuinely frum modern person.
... and while I met my wife through friends, I listened to some of my friends crazy shidduch stories and requests - my two favorites:
- Does he wear boxers or briefs?
- She needs to be a size 6, and read the NY Times and WSJ
- I have also heard of families making foolish medical decisions not in the best interests of their kids, but out of fear of ruining their shidduch prospects.
Please don't get me wrong. I don't live in the shidduch world to know the ins and outs, I am just very glad that when I had a choice, I opted out.
