Some issues are not black and white and both sides have valid points. Is that not a concept you agree with?
Like I said, I really bet you are a great guy in real life, but your on-line persona on this forum is Mr. Moral Equivalence.
Is there such a thing as "grey? Yes, but you make a shitta of it.
I hate using tired old phrases, especially about political ideology, but this is modern liberalism in a nutshell.
In Kabalistic parlance, it's called "sod eitz hadaas tairuvas tov v'ra." Our job is not to revel in the ambiguity. Our job is to use Torah to sift clarity out of ambiguity.