No it's foolish indeed, I agree. Once the line is drawn that no actual pictures are allowed they probably don't pay any further attention to non actual photos that might be worse, is that logical? No.
Exactly. So what are they proving? They have no care for tznius, chinuch, or any values, and are merely checking the right boxes. But dare someone question who decided on those boxes and if they are actually helpful or maybe problematic and they're are accused of going against "Chareidi values".
(Although Toys 4 U's costume ads come usually in their own leaflets and is not printed in the publication, that might explain why the publications don't feel the responsibility.)
Toys 4 U is following the rules they need to in order to be able to be included in the magazines. Again, checking the same boxes. They know if they publish a face, they'll get nixed. But the same person who will nix a face will greenlight a Disney character in a tank top. Chareidi Values FTW.
So my daughter doesn't need to become a professor on the matter,
Kids don't need to be professors to ask basic questions about what they see and hear
and it's not really important what she thinks as long she's happy and doesn't become ill effected and feeling misrepresented.
The first part is an extremely sad line to read. I'm sure you don't really mean that, as is evidenced by the second part, which contradicts it entirely.
But certainly what she did explain wasn't why a 6 year old boy shouldn't be seeing a 6 year old as you so eloquently put it, she still interacts regularly with boys her age. What she did say is;
I didn't say she did explain it, I'm wondering why she would think it is a problem. Unfortunately, the way these things are portrayed according to Chareidi Values ends up sexualizing kids. As they get older, it teaches girls that boys cannot control themselves, and it is the girls' responsibility to prevent boys from "sinning". Needless to say, that is not a recipe for a healthy marriage.
This is not my mishegas, or a Chabad mishegas, or some liberal progressive agenda that is anti-Torah. This is being espoused by therapists and professionals across the spectrum of the frum community.
she still interacts regularly with boys her age.
She must be the only Chareidi 11 year old girl interacting with 11 year old boys on the reg. (outside of Shluchim's kids)