I know many people who had clear symptoms such as complete loss of smell who tested negative (tested too early? Not sensitive enough?) , as well as people exposed to household members who were positive on a ongoing basis who to tested negative. Your block is completely consistent. The fact remains that numbers are not budging despite the massive current exposure of the past 6 to 8 weeks.
I think this is where a lot of people are getting tripped up. Being in a crowd does not mean you were exposed. You need to be near someone who has the virus in order to be exposed. Considering how few people had the virus in NYC over the last 6-8 weeks, and how few of those people were actually out and about, the fact is there was actually very
little exposure over the last 6-8 weeks.
To your other points about people claiming they couldn't smell and people being exposed to others in there households, neither of these things mean there were already infected, and neither means they should have any assumption of immunity. As has been pointed out countless times already, exposure does
not equal infected.